Chubby You sound like a truly lovely lady. I'm a guy, but like you I'm very sensitive. Some people will act in ways we like and others in ways we don't like. I personally find Igor's banter funny and don't mind him swearing at me or calling me a cheat (thank you for trying to protect me about that, BTW) as it's all just being silly.
Yes, Igor's rude and obnoxious at times (like I said, he called me a c--t the other day), but I personally don't take anything he says as an attack (maybe it's due to my age, because being over 50 I've heard it all already). Igor likes causing chaos and getting reactions out of people.
I do worry that you take the things he says personally and that they hurt you too much. If this is true, then remember, we're all just having fun here, being silly, and playing a silly game. You can always ignore him, but know that he does miss you. @IgorsFan said this, and we all know that this is really just @Igor in disguise.
Just have fun here and in the game. I personally have a lot of respect for you @Chubby and I was reading and enjoying your posts long before I joined this forum.