i came to realize this
- there is nothing you can say when you win to not make other team upset when playing quick match. telling them they did great will make them hate you. your only option is to say nothing
- but saying nothing is not an option when you lose, as it will make winning team think that you're mad. telling them they did great is your option. telling that you are sad and angry is an option too as it elevates you above people who are sad and angry but cant admit it